Supporting neurodivergent members
Learn how to ensure neurodivergent members are included in guiding
We want all neurodivergent members to be included in guiding.
Many girls, young women and volunteers are neurodivergent, including autistic people, people with ADHD, dyslexia, dyspraxia, dyscalculia, Tourette’s, and more. Everyone’s experience is different - and that’s why getting to know each individual matters most.
What's neurodivergence?
Definitions and wording about neurodivergence can change over time. We've provided key terms and explanations to support your understanding and help you include all neurodivergent members in guiding.
Not all neurodivergent people identify as disabled, even though they may meet the legal definition of disability and you may have a duty to make reasonable adjustments for them. For this reason, we’ve focused on neurodivergence rather than disability in this guidance.
- Neurodivergence: the natural difference in the way people's brains function. Neurodivergence refers to the various ways that human minds work.
- Neurodivergent: people who broadly share a different way of thinking, processing and mental functioning. Autism, dyslexia and ADHD are examples of conditions that fall under the umbrella of neurodivergence and people with these conditions can identify as being neurodivergent.
- Neurotypical: someone who is not neurodivergent.
It’s important to respect an individual's preferences about language. Some people might say they have a condition. Others might say they're autistic, dyslexic or an ADHDer, as it relates to their whole self, rather than being part of them or something they have. We don't encourage anyone to make assumptions, label or diagnose others.
Neurodivergence is a broad term and can include many conditions. People who have conditions like dyspraxia, dyscalculia, dysgraphia, bipolar disorder, Tourettes, epilepsy, or they stammer, can also identify as being neurodivergent.
Overview of common neurodivergent conditions
These 6 conditions are the most common forms of neurodivergence in UK schools and workplaces. They can overlap, and many people experience traits from more than 1 condition.
- ADHD (attention deficit hyperactivity disorder) – a neurodevelopmental condition affecting attention, focus, impulse control, and energy regulation. It can make concentration and task management challenging.
- Autism – a lifelong developmental disability that affects how people perceive the world and interact with others.
- Dyscalculia – affects understanding numbers, time, and mathematical concepts, making calculations and numerical reasoning difficult.
- Dysgraphia – impacts writing skills, including handwriting, spelling, and expressing thoughts clearly on paper.
- Dyslexia – affects reading, spelling, and language processing. It’s the most common specific learning difference and can also influence memory and organisation.
- Dyspraxia (developmental coordination disorder) – affects physical coordination and motor planning, which can influence handwriting, organisation, and everyday activities.
We want all neurodivergent members to be included in guiding. This means that we might need to do things differently when neurodivergent members face barriers.
Sharing information and confidentiality
Sharing information about neurodivergence is a personal choice. Some members may feel comfortable talking about it, while others may prefer to keep this information private.
If a parent or carer tells you about a member’s diagnosis, check whether the young person knows about it and whether they’re happy to talk about it. If a young person tells you about their diagnosis, ask whether they’d like others in the unit to know. Follow their lead and respect their wishes.
You don’t need to know - or ask about- a diagnosis. What matters is noticing when someone seems to be struggling, starting a conversation and making adjustments or changes to help remove any barriers they’re facing.
It's important to spot any signs that neurodivergent members may be facing barriers.
- Appearance: a member seeming disengaged, confused or upset.
- Behaviour: they appear distracted, fidgety, impatient, frustrated, or change their normal behaviour.
- Communication: they take longer to process information, misunderstand what is being said, or communicate in a way that seems blunt, unclear or repetitive.
If you spot signs that a member could be facing barriers, you may want to initiate a conversation. Here are some things you could say:
- Ask open questions like 'How are you finding guiding?' The member may want to know why you are asking the question and share information with you about barriers and adjustments.
- Use specific examples of things you have noticed. For example, 'I noticed you weren’t engaging with (the particular activity) today', or 'You appeared frustrated during (a particular point) today.'
- Ask the question: 'Can I make any changes?'
- Listen to the member – they may know what adjustments or changes could work for them, or they may not. Talk to them about what could remove the barriers and make sure you act on your conversation.
- If the member is a Brownie or Rainbow, you might consider having the conversation with a parent or carer too.
- Check in over the following weeks and ask – 'Did the changes help?' and 'What would work better next time?'
There's no one-size-fits-all approach to adjustments for neurodivergent members. Remember, an adjustment should remove the barrier the individual neurodivergent member is facing.
There are proactive and reactive adjustments that can remove barriers for neurodivergent members. Proactive adjustments are made in advance to ensure guiding is accessible. Reactive adjustments are made to remove barriers for individuals as things progress or change.
Prooactive adjustments (planned beforehand)
- Create a calm environment with appropriate lighting, noise levels and a quiet space.
- Use clear, plain language, speak in short sentences, and avoid jargon. Learn more about inclusive language and communication.
- Offer inclusive printed materials that have accessible font and printing sizes. You can get help with the costs for inclusive materials and resources. This may be available in your country and region, or with our accessible guiding grant.
- Use printable visual timetables (PDF 2.7MB) and share these resources with parents and carers.
Reactive adjustments (made in the moment)
- Explain any rules or changes to plans. Some members may value routines and predictability. When changes to plans are required, consider when and how the individual will respond best to being told about changes.
- Change the activity or the way you do something. Try to provide choice, transparency and flexibility with any neurodivergent member being clear about what is possible and why.
- Provide sensory tools like ear defenders or fidget toys.
- Changing the physical or sensory environment. Remember barriers can relate to any of the senses and sometimes a change to the environment will be necessary.
- Neurodivergent volunteers might work in different ways to other volunteers - focus on good teamwork and the outcomes rather than the way that something is done.
Adjustments may be needed for trips and activities that are away from the unit. For example, providing pictures of the venue that you are visiting in advance, ensuring quiet spaces are available or appointing a buddy for the activity. Discuss plans and adjustments in advance of trips and activities.
Supporting autistic members
We want autistic members to have a great guiding experience. We've created this guidance with the National Autistic Society so you, as volunteers, can feel confident and informed about autism and welcome autistic girls to your unit.

The National Autistic Society
Founded in 1962, the National Autistic Society is the UK’s leading charity for autistic people and their families. Their goal is to help transform lives, change attitudes and create a society that works for autistic people.
Autistic members see, hear and feel the world differently to neurotypical people. Autism is a spectrum condition, and while all autistic people share certain difficulties, being autistic will affect different people in different ways.
Autistic characteristics in women and girls may differ from those of other autistic people. Some autistic girls and women mask their differences. They may copy behaviours from others around them in order to “blend in” and not seem different; this can be exhausting, as it takes constant thought, energy and effort to appear similar to other people. Sometimes people don’t realise that the autistic girl is ‘masking’ and working hard to join in.
This more subtle presentation of autism is also a major barrier to professionals recognising autism and understanding the experiences of autistic girls and women.
Autistic people can have difficulties with social interaction and communication skills, so forming relationships can be tricky, and sometimes takes a little longer. This can lead to feelings of isolation and loneliness, even when there are lots of people around.
Some autistic people may not speak or have limited use of speech, especially if they are feeling anxious or overloaded by their sensory experience. They can find understanding and using both verbal communication (speech) and non-verbal communication (body language, gestures, facial expression and tone of voice) difficult.
For instance, some autistic people prefer not to make eye contact, in order to focus on listening and understanding what is being said to them. Unfortunately, this can sometimes be misunderstood as not listening.
Many autistic people have a literal understanding of language, and think people always mean exactly what they say. For example, if a volunteer says “wait a minute”, an autistic young person might wait for precisely 1 minute, and then if they go over that time, think that the volunteer is not keeping to their word; this can be stressful for an autistic person.
Autistic people often have difficulty 'reading' other people – that is, recognising or understanding other people’s feelings and intentions, and have difficulty expressing their own emotions. This can make it very hard for an autistic person to navigate the social world. For instance, they may:
- Appear to be insensitive, for example not looking like they care when someone else is upset.
- Seek out time alone, away from other people.
- Prefer to comfort themselves.
- Appear to behave differently or in a way that others consider unusual or not appropriate for the situation.
- Find it hard to form friendships.
- Seem to only talk about their own likes and interests.
Autistic people’s responses and behaviour can sometimes be interpreted differently depending on others’ social experience and knowledge. Taking the time to get to know each member as an individual can help you learn more about the way they perceive and experience the world.
What you can do
- Develop a communication passport together.
- Give extra time for processing when interacting with each other – 6 seconds or more for turn taking can help.
- Many autistic people describe themselves as visual thinkers and often benefit from using visual communication strategies, such as drawing, writing and using pictures.
- Visual sequences and schedules can help a lot to explain activities and instructions. Try to use photographs or symbols where you can.
- Support and encourage members to make friends. Talk about how to approach members and together consider ways of starting a conversation with other people in the unit. Afterwards, take some time together to reflect on what worked well and what they might like to try next time. Celebrate the successes each time.
- Together, identify a member who seems kind and interesting to the autistic member to be their “buddy”. This will be a member committed to showing them the way things work when needed and who encourages them to join in an activity.
- Do your best to say what you mean, and use clear, consistent language.
- An autistic member may not realise that what they are doing appears to be unusual to some people. Sometimes they can be judged as rude, when most of the time that isn’t their intention. Understanding, supportive adults can help develop good self-esteem. Discussion with parents/carers about how they support their young person in such instances could facilitate a positive, consistent approach.
- A positive, empathic approach will also enable you to encourage an autistic young person in tricky situations and develop trusting relationships.
Find out more about supporting autistic people with social interaction.
The world can seem like a very unpredictable and confusing place to autistic people, who often prefer to have a routine so that they know what is going to happen every day. They may want to always travel the same way to and from school or unit meetings, or eat exactly the same food for breakfast.
The use of rules can also be important. It can be difficult for an autistic person to take a different approach to something once they have been taught the 'right' way to do it. People on the autism spectrum might not be comfortable with the idea of change, for example moving from one activity to another, or from one section to another. They may be able to cope better if they can prepare for changes in advance.
What you can do:
- Your unit meetings may already have a set structure. Try to make sure you follow the same format, as far as possible. Visual timetables can help you give autistic members a visual plan of unit meetings. Get in touch with us on [email protected] for more information.
- If there’s a change to the programme, venue or volunteers, try to give the member as much notice as possible.
- If your unit is going somewhere new (for example, on a trip) help the member to prepare in advance. Work with parents/carers and the young person themselves, to decide how to do this. For example, looking at photos of where you are going, visit with a parent/carer before the trip. Consider the extra support that might be needed for the trip, to help the member to manage the changes.
- If you’re planning an overnight trip, it’s especially important to work with parents/carers and the young person themselves to decide how to best support when needed. It might help to give them clear information about the timetable for the trip and the routine for each day. Check what food the young person enjoys, as many autistic people like to eat the same food each day.
- Find out if the member has bedtime routines that they need to follow, and if there are any familiar objects they’d like to bring from home to help them feel comfortable and secure.
Sensory differences
Many autistic people experience differences in how they process sensory information. Any or all of the senses such as hearing, vision, touch, taste, smell, and balance, and body awareness can be over- or under-sensitive (or even both) at different times. For some autistic people, background sounds or busy environments may feel overwhelming or even physically painful, while other autistic people may seek out certain sensory experiences (the feel of favourite fabric or the satisfaction of squeezing a squishy object) because they feel enjoyable or calming.
Sensory differences can influence how someone communicates and responds to situations, and they can have a profound impact on day-to-day life.
Repetitive behaviours
Many autistic people use repetitive movements o actions – often called ‘stimming’ or self-stimulating behaviour – such as arm or hand-flapping, finger-flicking, rocking, jumping, spinning or twirling, head-banging and complex body movements. You may also see the repetitive use of an object, such as flicking a rubber band or twirling a piece of string, or repetitive activities involving the senses (such as repeatedly feeling a particular texture).
Repetitive behaviours may help someone:
- Gain sensory input – e.g. rocking may be a way to stimulate the balance (vestibular) system; hand-flapping may provide visual stimulation.
- Reduce sensory input - e.g. focusing on one particular sound may reduce the impact of a loud, distressing environment; this may be seen particularly in social situations to deal with stress and anxiety, and to block out uncertainty.
- Pass the time and provide enjoyment.
Repetitive behaviours can also be a way to express excitement or regulate emotions. Understanding their purpose can help you create an environment where autistic members feel comfortable and included.
What you can do:
- Speak with the member and their parents/carers about their sensory experiences. Ask what they might be sensitive to and what they find comforting or enjoyable. It can help to have some objects, such as spinners, furry materials and colourful textured objects for the conversation.
- Think about the environment where your unit meets. Consider things like noise, light and temperature and discuss any challenges or strengths with the autistic member and their family. Problem solve together as much as you can.
- Plan ahead for trips and outdoor activities by considering the sensory environment and discussing any changes that might help.
- Agree on simple ways to help reduce overwhelm, such as bringing a favourite object with them or wearing noise cancelling headphones (if they use them already).
- Create a safe space and build in 'sensory breaks’ between activities so the member can have a quiet space away from stimulation or other people. Check in after an agreed break, to encourage them to join their buddy if they feel ready to do so or to show that you care and you are nearby for them when needed.
- Consider quiet games and activities in the programme and work with autistic members to create activities that the whole unit can enjoy.
Find out more about sensory difference for autistic people.
You might also want to find out more about the National Autistic Society's Too Much Information (TMI) Campaign.
Autistic people may experience stress or anxiety in situations others don’t find difficult. Sometimes autistic people behave in unexpected ways when they’re stressed or anxious.
They may shout and get angry, retreat into themselves or try to run away. They might experience a meltdown - ‘an intense response to overwhelming situations’. This can happen when someone becomes completely overwhelmed by their current situation and temporarily loses control and the ability to cope.
What you can do:
- Find out what things make the member stressed or anxious, and how they react to those things.
- Know what the member needs you to do when they feel that way.
- If the member is prone to running away, make sure that you have carried out a risk assessment and have a plan with the autistic member and their parents/carers if they leave.
To learn more about how autistic young people experience stress and anxiety and how to support them, visit this advice on meltdowns and this advice on sports and activities.
Many autistic people have intense and highly-focused interests, often from quite a young age. These can change over time or remain lifelong interests. They can be anything from art or music, to trains or computers. An interest may sometimes be unusual.
Many autistic people channel their interest into studying, paid work, volunteering, or other meaningful occupation. Autistic people often report that the pursuit of such interests is fundamental to their wellbeing and happiness.
Interests can be a great way to start conversations and form friendships within units.
Resources and supporting organisations
Contact these organisations for the most up-to-date information:
- ADHD Babes - a support group for Black women and non-binary people with ADHD.
- ADHD UK - a national charity providing support, resources, and advocacy for individuals affected by ADHD across the UK.
- AP Cymru – The Neurodiversity Charity - a Welsh charity striving to create a neuro-inclusive world for children, young people and their families by providing a toolkit of guidance, knowledge and understanding of neurodiversity through authentic lived-experience.
- Autism & Neurodiversity North Scotland - creating opportunities for autistic and neurodivergent people, and their networks, to realise their full potential and transform the world we live in.
- Black Autism Manchester - a community group for Black women with presumed or diagnosed autism.
- British Dyslexia Association - a membership organisation working to achieve a dyslexia-friendly society for all.
- Daisy Chain - a charity that supports autistic and neurodivergent children, young people, adults, and their families through holistic, person-centred services.
- Dyscalculia Network - supports and advocates for people with dyscalculia and maths learning difficulties. The only UK organisation exclusively focused on dyscalculia.
- Dyspraxia Foundation - supporting individuals with Dyspraxia. Provides information, advocacy, and community resources for children, young people, adults, families, and professionals.
- Family Fund - UK's largest grant-making charity for families raising a disabled or seriously ill child, on a low income. Across all the UK.
- Mindroom - a Scottish charity that champions all forms of neurodiversity.
- National Autistic Society - here to help the 700,000 autistic people in the UK and their families.
- Neurodivergence Wales - the national neurodivergence site for Wales.
- STAMMA - the largest UK charity and membership organisation representing people who stammer.
- The Brain Charity - supports people with over 600 neurological conditions, including dyscalculia.
- The Donaldson Trust - the national body for neurodiversity.
- The Society for Neurodiversity (S4Nd - pronounced Sand) - supports people who identify as neurodivergent, including their families, friends and allies.
- Tourettes Action - the UK’s only national charity dedicated to supporting individuals with Tourette syndrome and their families.
For further guidance on removing barriers for neurodivergent members and volunteers please visit the following pages on the Gov.uk website:
- Making your service accessible: an introduction
- Accessible communications
- Digital communication
- Inclusive language
Need more support?
It’s okay not to know what to do - you can always seek additional support or escalate any concerns.
If you don't know what adjustments to make or need any help with a member or for yourself please reach out to [email protected] or [email protected]
For further support or information, please contact your commissioner or county adviser or email [email protected].
You can also find out more about supporting members with their mental health and wellbeing.



